The image just above you is a pair of big girl panties. Put them on and buck up.
There will be a more meaningful post later this week. However, I have hurt my back and am feeling remarkably cranky at people. Put on your big girl underwear and do your best to be adults. I’m locking comments on this post on account of the fact that once my muscle relaxers kick in, I’m likely to rethink my harshness and delete it.